Anxiety & Inner Tension
Who is this for?
Anxiety is one of the most common reasons people seek out therapy. It's also one of the most misunderstood, because of the many faces it shows up as. For some, anxiety lives primarily in the body, a nervous, restless, on-edge hum that lingers even when there's no obvious reason for it. For others, it lives more in the mind, a brain that won't quiet down, that's always scanning for what could go wrong, that turns even small decisions into exhausting negotiations with yourself. Or maybe it's subtler than that, a kind of existential restlessness, a difficulty settling into your life, a searching for something you can't quite name.
For many people, anxiety moves between all three, shifting depending on the season, the relationship, the moment. You don't need a diagnosis for it to count. Whether you've lived with anxiety your whole life, or it's something newer that's crept in alongside a season of change, however it shows up for you, it's real, and it's worth tending to.
Anxiety often isn't the problem itself. It's usually a signal, a nervous system trying to protect you, a mind trying to prepare you, a part of you trying to keep you safe in the only way it knows how. That doesn't make it any less exhausting to live with. But it does mean there's almost always something underneath it worth understanding.
Whether you're looking for relief from the weight of it, or you're curious about what it's been trying to tell you all along, we work with both. And more often than not, one leads to the other. If anxiety has been keeping you in your head instead of your life, pushing instead of resting, planning instead of present, therapy can be a place to finally exhale.
how this can show up
This isn't a checklist. It's an invitation to notice what feels true for you.
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Persistent worry, overthinking, rumination, or a mind that won't slow down
Chronic worry that feels hard to control, even when you know it's irrational
Difficulty letting things go, even when part of you knows it doesn't matter
Indecisiveness, even about the small things
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Feeling on edge, emotionally overwhelmed, or easily dysregulated
Anxiety that affects your sleep, concentration, or energy
Knowing logically that you're okay, but your body or mind not getting the message
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People pleasing, difficulty saying no, or shrinking yourself to keep the peace
Perfectionism, an intense inner critic, or obsessing over small mistakes
Overachieving, constant busyness, or difficulty relaxing and doing something enjoyable
Social anxiety, a fear of judgment, rejection, or being truly seen by others
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Inner tension or conflict, like different parts of you want completely different things
Reaching your goals but continuing to feel dissatisfied
A restless, searching quality, like you're waiting for your life to finally feel like yours
A sense that something is missing, even when nothing is technically wrong
Anxiety around growth, transitions, or the vulnerability of being fully and authentically seen